Relations are sacred… Let us respect relationships
Good relations are beautiful feathers added to our life. They are like helping hands when we are in trouble. They knit a bonding among human beings. Still how relations work is a mystery. Similar interests, understanding, sacrifice are key for a sacred relationship like friendship.
It is also true that many times we fail to understand and value a relationship, which is apart from the family relations. Many of us are still not ready to agree that a teenage boy and girl, a man and woman can be true friends or they can be like brother and sister. The question is why the society is like this?
Yes, there are indeed many wrong relationships in our surroundings that end up in disaster. But, all relationships between a boy and girl don’t end up with affairs!
We cannot define a relationship by what you see and judge upon it. We want ‘society’ to change its mentality. Let’s start that change from ourselves.
Let us start thinking positively regarding the relations. Let us not enjoy spreading rumours. Let us try to understand and value the beauty of relationships. In the world of fakeness, cruelty, cheating, if there are good relations let us respect and appreciate them. They help us to share our pain or happiness.
Shravya, II BA,
University College, Mangalore
Read the below 10 times… There are no “real” relations in life apart from the blood relations. Everything else is a social construct powered by the illusion a few body-chemicals create in the mind. From evolution standpoint men are pigs and women are weak, so in order to tame the former and protect the latter, the institution of marriage was created by the society. As a precursor to marriage, society felt it convenient to allow a phase called “relationship”. Do not read too much into it more than what it truly is. All this soulmate, lover etc. is absolute bull.… Read more »